If I could impart only one thing to women,
it is the incredible power that they hold to awaken and inspire the hearts of men. All too often I see women shutting and numbing themselves down to protect themselves against men, denying their inner longings, clueless and disconnected to their innate magic. They think to themselves that OTHER women are enchanting, alluring, intoxicating, adorable, striking, loveable, but that they themselves do not hold this " je ne sais quoi".
They think that other women may hold this power, but such women are not ‘damaged like me’, not a single mother, they are young, beautiful, have a hot body, talented, sexy...
And so these women close off to love and the vulnerability of love because the whole saga just feels too painful to truly confront, or they settle and put up with relationships or disappointing 'flings' to fill up the void that they themselves feel.
To these women, being single isn't a genuine choice, nor is being unsatisfactorily coupled.
I KNOW THIS BECAUSE I HAVE JOURNEYED THIS INTIMATELY
On the surface I've always known I was considered beautiful, I was told I was sexy, I was told I was smart, people liked me and I expressed talent in different ways through my life, and yet love and men completely eluded me! I suffered regular disappointments and heartbreaks, I was bitter.
There were times when I hated men for not ever REALLY seeing or loving me. I swung between chopping off all my hair and putting on weight so that I didn't have to ‘deal’ with men's attention, to going on crash diets and getting hair extensions to attract lots of men.
I swung from being scared of intimacy of any sort, to being promiscuous.
I swung from being an ice queen to being a ‘pathetic’ door mat.
When I had enough I got married to a man I loved but didn't really know, or to be honest, really respected. He was malleable and the whole thing was just too damn hard. I wanted the picket fence and a child at any cost, so I 'made it happen' regardless of whether we were truly compatible or not. Superficially, he fit the bill.
Then, surprise, surprise...
I got divorced
I became a single mother
I worked in the sex industry for 5 years.
I studied men in their most intimate of habitats. I devoured books on love, psychology and relating. I trained as a tantric practitioner and facilitated countless private consultations with men wanting to be the best men and lovers possible. I learnt first hand how to bring men into their true, heart centered power. I learnt about navigating their deepest vulnerabilities and into mastering their sexual energy. I now facilitate some of the most advanced and revolutionary bodies of work in the field of sexuality, intimacy, self love and relating. I have no doubt of how much power I hold as a woman, how magnetic I am and my capacity to inspire deep love, devotion and passion.
I HAVE NO DOUBT THAT THIS IS THE KNOWLEDGE THAT TRANSFORMS RELATIONSHIPS, AND AFTER SEEING THE MIRACLES THAT OCCURRED FOR WOMEN AND MEN, AND HOW FAMILIES HAVE BEEN POSITIVELY IMPACTED, I WANT TO SHARE THIS KNOWLEDGE WITH YOU.
I want every woman to know this about themselves, to first love themselves,
and then call in what their heart truly desires.
I want this for all women.
I want this for the beautiful men, that this often ‘untapped’ magic will awaken in them.
This is what I have lived, and this is what I am here for.
This is what I am devoted to.
I’m an Intimacy + Relationships + Sexuality Specialist. My approach is intimate, edgy and pivotal in helping women to cultivate passionate relationships that are deeply authentic, deeply truthful and deeply satisfying.
ALEJANDRA NICOLAZZO is Australia’s most celebrated Intimacy + Sexuality Specialist and Relationship Expert. Highly regarded for her contribution and leadership in helping to shape the conscious relating and tantric industry; Alejandra has an extensive background in tantra, dance therapy and over 5000 hours of private sessions, and over 10 years on the field experience.
She is the Creator of ‘Opening to Love’ and ‘Ready for Love’, her digital offerings devoted specifically to helping women find real love, as well as lead her community and V.I.P clients to be FILTHY LOVE RICH. Her focus area of behavioural expertise has been specialised in working extensively with men and women to explore their sexuality and vulnerability, and has then devoted a further 4 years of her career to facilitating group therapeutic journeys and working intensively with helping clients with sexual shame, trauma, and deep seated relationship blocks and patterns.
In 2016 she co-created and co-founded 'Awakening Connections' with Shaney Marie. Awakening Connections is dedicated to cultivating both culture and community to empower men and women to shed any disempowering beliefs about the opposite sex, and understand the power they hold to bring out the best in the opposite gender. This groundbreaking work is intimate, edgy and pivotal in providing resources to help create enlivened and passionate relationships.
Today Alejandra continues to be devoted to teaching women about the radiance, magnetism, and enchantment of their feminine essence, the deep inner beauty of their vulnerability and the secrets to bringing men into a place of deep love and heart centred power. Alejandra’s life’s work and mission is to support humanity to bravely open up their hearts to new paradigms of deeply authentic and sexy relating, and restoring harmony between the sexes.
Alejandra’s charity of choice is Art to Healing, a global activist movement to free women and children from sex slavery and abuse. She fully supports them in their programmings, education, and professional development to allow for women and children to repair, recover, and return to a life free from exploitation.
When Alejandra isn’t coaching or facilitating, she is enjoying time with her son Seth, her partner Joe, and his children on Australia’s beautiful coastline in Venus Bay.
Alejandra Nicolazzo is Australia’s most celebrated Intimacy + Sexuality Guide and Relationship Expert. Highly regarded for her contribution and leadership in helping to shape the conscious relating and tantric industry;
Alejandra has an extensive background in tantra, dance therapy and over 5000 hours of private sessions, and over 10 years on the field experience. Alejandra’s life’s work and mission is to support humanity to bravely open up their hearts to new paradigms of deeply authentic and sexy relating, and restoring harmony between the sexes. She is the Creator of ‘Opening to Love’ and ‘Ready for Love’, her digital offerings devoted specifically to helping women find real love, as well as lead her community and V.I.P clients to be FILTHY LOVE RICH.